Health

Are you a negative or a positive parent?

If I asked you, are you a negative or a positive person? What would you answer? Be honest with yourself. I know that being negative is easy sometimes, but is it really serving you? A positive mind set has so much more to offer.

A healthy dose of negative energy.

I grew up in a country where we tend to focus on what is wrong, what can improve and sometimes forgetting to look at what is good or positive in our surroundings. I wonder, I just wonder what impact it would have to me if it was reversed, we only focused on the positive, the beautiful and the good? What would happen to country then?

Where focus goes energy flows.

What we focus on we will see and get more off. It is as simple as that. You get what you are looking for. Meaning that if you focus on everything that is good, you will find more good and will attract more good. Ever had a morning where you thought this is going to be a horrible day? Probably it was not a day to remember?

The parenting effect.

Imagine you showed up after work at home to your kids, dragging a thunder cloud above your head. Your happy little kids are glad to see you, but one look and he know how late it is. He probably will change his habits starts mis behaving just because you weren’t happy with what the day brought. Kids can switch their state in an instance, I even witnessed crying and laughing at the same time and no it weren’t tears of joy.

The energy you bring.

It is important to be continuous of what energy you bring are you in a good positive vibe or a negative one? Notice your own behavior and ask the question what type of energy you want to bring when it comes to your family? I made a decision I want to bring a lot of positive energy to my family, so what do you want?